Friday, July 6, 2012

Publicity Stunt or Case of Concious: R&B Artist Frank Ocean Comes Out



Not only did Anderson Cooper come out in an incredibly nonchalant manner via an email to Andrew Sullivan on Monday, but Frank Ocean, an R&B singer who is part of the hip hop collective Odd Future and who has also written songs for Justin Bieber, John Legend and Beyoncé, came out on his blog last night.
Ocean writes in part:
In the last year or 3 I've screamed at my creator, screamed at the clouds in the sky, for some explanation. Mercy maybe. For peace of mind to rain like manna somehow.
4 summer ago, I met somebody. I was 19 years old. He was too. We spent that summer, and the summer after, together. Everyday almost… Sleep I would often share with him. By the time I realized I was in love, it was malignant. It was hopeless. There was no escaping.


He continues "I don't know what happens now, and that's alrite. I don't have any secrets I need kept anymore… Thanks to my first love, I'm grateful for you. Grateful that even though it wasn't what I hoped for and even though it was never enough, it was… I feel like a free man. If I listen closely… I can hear the sky falling too."
The news comes just days after a review of Ocean's upcoming "Channel Orange" album claimed the singer "[opens] up about his sexuality on the album" and noted that "...on the songs ‘Bad Religion’ ‘Pink Matter and ‘Forrest Gump’ you can hear him sing about being in love and there are quite obvious words used like ‘him’ and not ‘her’."
Tyler the Creator, a rapper who is also part of Odd Future, took to Twitter to congratulate Ocean, a not-insignificant move seeing as Tyler has been accused of homophobia in the past.
Tyler writes, "F**king Finally Sus Boy @frank_ocean Hahahaha, You Still Aint Got No Bitches Hahaha My N***a Dawg" and "My Big Brother Finally F***ing Did That. Proud Of That N***a Cause I Know That S**t Is Difficult Or Whatever."
As more and more celebrities venture out of closet, and do it with less and less fanfare, the hip hop community continues to struggle with homophobia.
However, gay-friendly artists like Nicki Minaj and Fat Joe and openly queer artists like Azealia Banks and Ocean are proving that the tides may be changing.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

90 Types of Bitches......Bitch

(Found on the floor of a 3rd grade classroom in Washington, D.C.)





Hmmm!!!

Monday, July 2, 2012

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes Split...Right On Schedule

Of all the rumors about Tom Cruise, one has stuck harder than all the rest.

In 2005, four years after splitting from actress Nicole Kidman, the world's biggest movie star supposedly approached several young Hollywood actresses with an offer of a five-year marriage contract. Among those approached, the rumor goes, were Sofia Vergara, Scarlett Johansson and Katie Holmes, who would go on to become Cruise's third wife. In exchange for marrying Cruise, the bride would receive a career boost and saddles of cash, plus a bonus if she gave birth to a child. For Tom, the marriage would provide him with a child, rehabilitate his increasingly eccentric public image, and finally quash all of those pesky gay rumors.

Now that Holmes has filed for divorce from Cruise, the story has resurfaced with a vengeance. So how true is it? And where did these rumors come from?

"That urban legend probably grew out of a misunderstanding of what actually did occur," said Tony Ortega, editor-in-chief of the Village Voice, in an email to The Huffington Post. Ortega claimed that "several young women were vetted by the church and 'tried out' as Tom's next wife before Katie Holmes was chosen" and that each was required to sign multiple nondisclosure agreements before they dated Cruise -- a "standard procedure in the church."

"The church was being very careful as it helped Tom find a new wife. Although Cruise and the church were successful keeping that quiet at the time, it was only after he and Nicole split up in 2000 that Cruise gradually began getting back into Scientology in a big way," he said.
"By 2004, he was very gung-ho, and the process for finding him a new wife, this one approved by the church, was under way," he said.




Ortega, who has been covering Scientology since 1995, said he has interviewed hundreds of people about the history of the church -- an institution where Cruise ranks second or third in command, according to celebrity biographer Andrew Morton, author of "Tom Cruise: An Authorized Biography."

Morton has reported several details that support Ortega's version of events. In an article published today on the gossip website Celebuzz, Morton claims that, before settling on Holmes, Cruise was smitten with "Modern Family" star Vergara and arranged for an introduction by fellow Scientologist Will Smith. Cruise, Morton writes, had "casually suggested that Vergara join him on a trip to the Scientology Celebrity Centre in Hollywood," but the actress balked at the religion, finding it "cloying and suffocating." One could argue that Vergara failed her audition.

With other actresses, Cruise needed no such personal introductions. Cruise reportedly met both Johansson and Holmes on a different sort of audition -- when they tried out for a role in "Mission Impossible III," which Cruise produced. Johansson was initially slated to co-star in the film, but she dropped out after Cruise allegedly forced Scientology literature on her. Holmes didn't get the role (which eventually went to Michelle Monaghan), but began dating Cruise -- whom she had admired for years -- shortly thereafter. Unlike the other actresses Cruise had approached, Holmes seemed to embrace Scientology. In 2006, she delivered the couple's daughter, Suri, in a "silent birth," a church practice that encourages minimal noise to avoid negatively affecting the mother and child.
As bizarre as Cruise's dating tactics may seem, a source who knows the couple said Cruise was "completely in love with Katie" and that his intentions were well-meaning.

"Does [Cruise] have people who date him sign nondisclosure agreements? I don't know for a fact, but it wouldn't surprise me, as I'm sure a lot of high-profile celebrities do this," said the source, who spoke on the condition of anonymity. "Does that mean it’s a marriage contract? Absolutely not. Do I think Katie is legally bound not to tell certain things? Probably."

Holmes understood from the beginning that Scientology would always be Cruise's top priority, according to the insider. "The church is very involved in their lives and has been from the beginning. Katie was aware of this and she willingly went into this marriage, so to act like she’s some kind of victim is somewhat insincere."

Though Holmes, 33, and Cruise, 49, are likely to remain mum as their divorce unfolds, one convincing argument against the contract rumor has come from Holmes herself. In her divorce filing, the actress asked for sole custody of 6-year-old Suri. Surely, any pre-existing contract would have prevented Holmes from taking Suri away from Cruise altogether.

At least Suri will have company when she's returned to the prop department.

Gabby Goes for Gold!



Aurora, IL native, Gabrielle (Gabby) Douglas, has just earned a spot on the Olympic Gymnastics team as an alternate. She made the team by 1/10 of a point, but is on the team, nevertheless!

She is a young ball of muscle, grace and poised perfection. The last time I saw legs like hers, they were marching down a runway closing the Gianni Versace show and were attached to Naomi Campbell.

Im not saying I hope one of the gymnasts can't compete for some reason allowing Gabby to do her thing, but I hope one of the gymnasts can't compete for some reason allowing Gabby to do her thing.

Go, Gabby! Go!

Sunday, July 1, 2012

BET's Night of Black Star Power.....oh, and Kim Kardashian







Our Father (and Stepmother) Who Aren't In Heaven

I simply can not wait for a family get together.

Amusing is not enough of a word to describe watching The McMullens, via Henry Jr. and his blushing bride, Clementine. They have a way of communicating, I now understand. She screeches like an owl, bouncing with one hand on her hip and he purses his lips tight enough to turn coal into diamonds.

One particular night earlier this week, I get back from a friendly gathering at a pizzeria hosting a group a new friend belongs to where we sit and pretend to be interested in one another's musings about life. I no longer have the ability to feign interest. I have even noticed that I purse my lips like Henry Jr. when disgusted.

Okay. Picture this: 7PM, dusk. Not quite dark yet. I'm being dropped off at Dad's house and I notice the garage door is open and Clem is inside doing the bounce she can't control between bursts of talking. Dad is walking away to his porch and I'm getting out of the car.

Clem is in this dirty, oily garage, stepping around a huge puddle of oil and dressed like a 13 year old Target model in yellow shoes, white bobby socks, a jean skirt and yellow tee.

Dad was in his Dickies and a t shirt, obviously upset with her and she with him.

"I just came over to help! I'll go back to the house!" she screeches.

Dad replies with, "Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone. Gone." And then his cell phone rings. He is the poster child for  Elderly Man in Dire Need of a Hearing Aid. He offers his typical answer after it has rang fifteen times. Upon answering he always puts it on speaker phone so the neighborhood can hear all the business. Not just some of it.

"Hello? Hello?! HELLO?!" as if in a race to say Hello the fastest.

"Get em off speaker phone, Mac! Don't nobody wanna be on speaker phone when they talkin on the phone! Don't ever put me on speaker!" and on and on she went, circling that oily spot shaped like Africa on the garage floor in her pristine yellow Keds.

"Clem will you be quiet!" Dad yelled from the porch as all the neighbors came out pretending to prune garden. That did it for Clem, boy. " Ohhh! Heh. Heh. You wants me quiet now?" and before she could get it out, those bright pristine yellow Keds hit that oil and she skated two feet before clearing the Southern tip of Africa where it was dry and landed smack dab in Central Africa doing the splits.

She rolled in the oil and hollered, "Lawd!"

I turned around and my friends were still there in the car. "She's Pentecostal." I explained.

As I reached the sparring couple, she refused to let Dad help her up and his lips pursed tight enough to crack walnuts. So,her son, Joseph and I did the honors.

I'd honestly not seen slipping and sliding like that since my days spent at White Water.

Some families would consider that drama.

I call it Thursday.

Introducing, Miss Naomie Harris




English born Naomie Harris first garnered worldwide recognition for her fierce turn in Danny Boyle's gorefest, "28 Days Later", playing the part of no nonsense Selena who wielded a machete in order to stay alive during the zombie apocalypse. 

Aside from one or two small parts such as Trudy Joplin in the big screen treatment and failure, "Miami Vice", she has largely kept to her side of the pond, consistently working in Europena film and television. 

The 35 year old actress is not only regarded as one of England's best kept secrets, she is a powerhouse of an actress and is poised to face the worldwide stage in the latest James Bond film, "Skyfall",  slated for a November 2012 release.

Harris will play field agent Eve, widely rumored to, in fact, be the future Miss Moneypenny.

I'll put my money on Naomie Harris to finally take center stage and chew up some scenery.

Wind her up.

Watch her go.